Friday, September 16, 2005

aNothEr tHoUGhts Of LoV3
This blog was shared to me by a friend ...and it's really captured my attention and I wish to share it out to those out that who enjoy reading the previous blog in this site....

If you're afraid to love a person because of friendship,
You have two choices:
either tell what you feel and let the love take place or
hide the feeling under a friendship full of pretensions

It's hard for two people to love each other when they live in two different worlds
But when these two worlds collide and become one,
that's what you call magic !

Love can never be so beautiful without friendship.
One leads to anotehr and the process is irreversible.
The best of lovers is the greatest of friends!

I like you because you're my friend
and because you are my friend I care
And because I care, I love you.
I don't love you because you are my friend
I love you because I do !

Sometimes I've asked myself, what would make me happy?
To think that I have everything else, I get what I want.
Then I realized it ws YOU, too bad 'caused it's you that I can't have
I can't choose who I'm gonna love,
but I also can't love who chooses to love me.

And you can't blame me in choosing to love you
as much as I can't blame you for not learning to love me.
I'm sorry if you can't love me the way you loved the one before me,
so I'll let you go find her and hope someday
you'll see that the true love you're looking for was the one who set you free.

"How can I say goodbye to someone I never had?
Why do tears fall for someone who was never mine?
Why is that I miss someone I was never with
and I ask why I love someone who's love was never mine?"

Isn't it funny we're trying to catch the attention of the one we think we love,
We hardly notice the one we're really looking for was just there.
You don't notice them till they are in the arms of someone else.

Food for thought, think of this:

Have you really cared for someone more then expected?
have you ever tried to love him despite of all the pain?
Will you keep on loving him as he whispers someone else's name? Will you?

It's better to lose your pride with someone you love
rather then lose that someone you love with your useless pride.
When you love someone,
don't expect that person to love you back the same amount.

One of you will be head, the other behind.
it's either you catch up or the other waits.
When you love, you must not expect anything in return,
for if you expect happiness, you're not loving but using.

Ture love hears what is not spoken,
and understands what is not explained,
For love doesn't work in the mouth,
nor the mind, but the heart....

Love is like standing on wet cement,
the longer you stay the harder it is to leave
and you can never go without leaving your prints behind.

Don't love a person like a flower,
because a flower dies in season.
Love them like a river because a river flows forever.
Loce doesn't have to have a happy ending,
cause love doesn't have to end at all.

Never be afraid to fall in love,
It may hurts a lot, it may give you aches and pains
but if you don't follow your heart,
in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance

Love may leave your heart, like shattered glass,
but keep in mind that there's someone who'll be willing
to endure the pain of picking up pieces
so you could be whole again.

The cruelest thing a guy could do to a girl is
to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall!
and fooling around with her feelings like they meant nothing.

Posted on the blog by: iFLEW @ 12:00 AM

Sunday, July 17, 2005

whAt's LoVe is AlL aBouT
What 'Love' is all about.. I want to share this to all those who have loved and been hurt, those who haven't loved at all and those who are just about to discover the beauty of this dynamic emotion.
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go!
You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.
You'll never truly love a person you love unless you RISK FOR LOVE. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time, though the hurting is still there to test you and to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.
You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure nor won by a single cares. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, relearning, discovering, rediscovering, and growing.
The greatest irony of love is LETTING GO WHEN YOU WANT TO HOLD ON and HOLDING ON WHEN YOU NEED TO LET GO. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejections; to hope is to risk failure; to reach for another is to risk involvement; to expose your feelings is to expose your true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
But isn't it living is to risk of dying? Risk must be taken because THE GREATEST HAZARD IN LIFE IS RISKING NOTHING! How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife. It CAN STAB THE HEART but it also CAN CARVE WONDERFUL IMAGES INTO THE SOUL THAT LAST FOR A LIFETIME! Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that these were the things which helped you grow.
Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. When you give your heart to someone, you're also giving him or her the power to tear and break your heart into pieces. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is LOVE. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that's why it is called falling in love...

Saturday, April 16, 2005



A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift.
A friend is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace.
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place

@~~ That's the true friendship~~@

Wednesday, April 06, 2005

I never thought that I will spend my time in doing this blog thing...though I enjoyed reading others blog (without they knew I even read it ~ usally I dont place any "trademark")What am I doing with this now...?? Errr..I am still figuring it out.
Most probably I just wish to write something without even been traced by anyone intruders at my own home sweet home.

There, finally i decided to get this started. Maybe as I alawys did to others, no one might even know the existence of my blog..anyhow that is not the main point of who cares !